PH-, MH-I find it hard to believe that I can really be loved or desired if I'm disabled. If I need care doesn't that make me undesirable as a partner and at best someone to help out of pity but not someone that can be loved?
RE: PH-, MH-@aens probably but you don't have to contribute to be good enough, it's something you can do if you're able to. just keep trying your best^^ but not in the verge of hurting yourself or burning yourself out. you matter regardless of being abled of certain things or not, you don't have to contribute and you can give back in other ways if you want and can no reason to feel bad about it even though i get it.
